Here are three easy ways to makeover your love life with kindness today!

Kindness is the generous balm that can mend our inner hurts and smooth over past disharmony. It can heal. It can calm. It can give life meaning. It can tap us back into our inner joy and joie de vie.

When we apply kindness to our love lives, everything gets sweeter. The gentle ambrosia of kindness uplifts and lightens our romantic lives and transformation happens when we least expect it.

Here are three ways to makeover your love life with kindness today!

1.Commit to one act of self kindness right now. What could you do today to demonstrate your love and caring for yourself? Perhaps get a pedicure, take a nice walk by the water, or enjoy a healthy and delicious green juice. Whatever your body and being crave, be kind and provide that nurturance for yourself today. Your love life will improve because as you care for yourself you increase your capacity to give and receive caring with another.
2.Be kind to your relationship partner. What is one thing you could do today to share kindness with your partner? You could stick a love note in their briefcase to find tomorrow. You might give them a huge hug and tell them how much you appreciate them. You could get tickets to the movie they have been wanting to see all week and surprise them. A kind act shows you care and everyone loves to feel cared for. The good vibes start flowing and if you make caring for yourself and each other a regular practice, things get better and better.
3.Be kind to the world! Choose kindness in general and you will feel happier and more engaged and connected to life. Do this with your partner and as a unit you will feel more of a part of your community. You could volunteer together. You could help a mutual friend in need. You could do a guerrilla kindness act and bring your mother chocolate for no reason. Whatever it is, buddy up with your partner in crime (and kindness) and start spreading the love. When you spread love, you experience more love and every relationship is improved by even more love.

Get your kindness on today and make your romantic life sparkle with good vibes and love!

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This past Saturday was 12/13/14, the last number-sequential date that will hit the calendar for nearly 20 years, and more than 20,000 couples were slated to tie the knot before the clock struck midnight. If you weren’t one of those lucky duos, but are still hoping to have a wedding date that’s as cool as it is easy to remember, here are seven dates for you to consider choosing in 2015.

1/5/15

January 5th is your first chance for a fun wedding date in 2015. January is quickly approaching, so you might need to get going with your planning (or consider a low-key city hall wedding!), but the 5th would certainly make for an easy-to-remember anniversary date. Imagine all of the fun you could have with your save-the-dates; consider sending out a round reminder with a never-ending circle of 1s and 5s to make sure no one ever forgets your date!

3/14/15

Affectionately known as Pi Day in honor of the mathematical symbol (that comes out to approximately 3.14159), this would be a really delicious day to tie the knot. Embrace the spirit of the day by serving pie on your big day instead of cake, sending out pie tin save-the-dates, or sending your guests home with adorable mini hand pies as favors. The options truly are endless . . . just like the number of digits in π.

4/11/15

Consider yourself a math nerd? Then this is the date for you, because 4 + 11 = 15. You don’t often find dates that really add up quite as nicely like this one does. Plus, in 2015, April 11th falls on a Saturday, making it a very wedding-worthy date. Just be sure you book your venue early to guarantee you get the date you desire.

5/16/15

Look closely . . . May 16, 2015 is a palindrome, which means it reads the same backward or forward. This would be a good date to pick if you’re into numerology, the belief in divine, mystical, or other special relationship between a number and some coinciding events. When your wedding date looks the same regardless of which way you look at it, that may just be a good sign that your marriage will flourish no matter what comes your way. Another palindrome to consider: 5/1/15.

5/5/15

If five is your lucky number, consider this five-filled date for your nuptials. It will look nice on your favors, a corn hole board, and on customized champagne glasses. Even though this date falls on a Tuesday this year, it’d be a very nice pick for tying the knot in an intimate ceremony followed by a small party with just your nearest and dearest.

8/15/15

If you have your heart set on getting married on a Saturday, then consider August 15th as a possible date for your nuptials. It’s the only time the 15th day of the month falls on a Saturday throughout the entire year. If you’re able to secure this date, that’s a fun fact you can share anytime anyone asks you why you chose to make things officially official on that particular date!

7/11/15

Do you and your partner march to the beat of your own drum? Then embrace your quirky personalities with a completely odd-numbered date like this one. The fact that it incorporates a popular convenience store name makes it easy to remember without being conventional. Looking for something even more offbeat? Consider 11/13/15 for a somewhat sequential and totally unique date . . . but if you’re superstitious, be warned it falls on a Friday the 13th!

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